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The mistake of coming back together… CASUALLY (Sex and
The mistake of coming back together… CASUALLY (Sex and The City Analysis)
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Join me as we delve into the intricate dynamics of Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big in Season Two of the iconic series “Sex and the …
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“Yes, because you have PROBLEMS” 😂
People with anxious attachment styles (like Carrie) are often attached to people with Avoidant attachment (such as Big). Carrie wants the validation of having this avoidant guy pick her. She wants to show him ask the reasons why he should pick her and do all these girlfriend/wifey things when Big hasn’t earned any of that from her.
I never wanted Carrie to end up with Big. She contorts everything about herself and her life to integrate herself into Big’s world, but Big never reciprocates that.
These relationships keep you stuck! It’s awful going round in circles never going anywhere, but very addictive & the hope keeping you coming back for more Urghh
24:37 I got a similar response, then they told people we talked everything out; we did not, I was thinking of cutting them of every second they were close to me, but it felt like I needed time to think, Was I the crazy one here or were they horrible to me? In the end I realized that didn't matter, it hurt to be around this person, it felt brutal and I had to run, with or without an answer to my questions
I love hearing you talk! I feel like we're old friends!
I live for these videos lol
I love this series of videos ❤ can’t wait for the next one!
I really like your analysis, waiting for the final part of this season🎉
Carrie learns big goes to church with his mom. He does not invite her. She takes it as a sign to tag along and force herself on his mother. Get a clue Carrie, you are a liability!
What I would give to slap Mr.big
I can't bring myself to the realization that maybe he didn't feel as strongly about me as I did about him. He kept his negative feelings in check and the only ones he openly showed were his attraction toward me so it hit me like a truck when he broke it off, seemingly out of nowhere. Logically I know I can't rule out the possibility that I had the wrong impression of how much he liked me, but I emotionally can't accept it. I'm depressed but I feel like that delusion is keeping me from going into a deeper depression
“Did I miss anything?” When he KNEW he missed her poem reading! Makes me SO MAD. He was demeaning her.
Aidan would never.
I’m with you. I’m genuinely so mad watching that episode like I just want to yell at her. And him.
It pisses me off so much too. Carry has Stockholm, she’s LIVING for those crumbs
OMG Carrie with big is Hailey Bieber with justin bieber .. they both married the man they want only coz they gave a guy 200 chances and they got him in the end coz they won the tolerance trophy, they were persistent in accepting Whatever it takes to get the guy in the end… And accept minimum like it was a lot😱😱
Loving the content ❤
💯 💯 I told my Mr Big that i would never be with him and "bye" 🌷🌷💃🏻💃🏻 dating an emotionally unavailable men is like trying to board a bus with closed doors… Both get you nowhere 💃🏻
I don't know who needs to hear this, but if you were the one who initiated the breakup and then you are the one who comes back, you are doomed to come back to even worse conditions than you had before.
Let me repeat: you're not coming back to where you were (and that was the situation you wanted to escape by breaking up), you are coming back to a much worse relationship with your partner.
I'm having the time of my life watching your videos on SATC ❤ I couldn't agree more, also you put a lot of things in a very interesting perspective, that I've never thought of.
Carrie is just betraying herself again and again and again, and it's painful to watch because overall she's a likeable character, to me at least)
I've been waiting for the next part ❤
Can't wait for that crazy "wedding" part lmao (Carrie and Big's I mean)
Big did not care about her except for sex… she didn’t value herself enough to see it… their story is a great example of what NOT to allow as a woman!
Mr. Big was the absolute King of breadcrumbers. Absolute master of playing stupid games, and all you'll win in those games are stupid prizes.
We are ready!! Thank you for the video ❤
I am so TIRED of the trope of 'as long as the man cares and/or suffers over the loss of a woman, he deserves her back'. NO. Caring is the bare minimum. To be in a relationship, he needs to show investment, direct communication, atonement, self awareness and clear goals that he pursues. Without that, DON'T take someone back. It will fall apart in the same way. So many men leverage women's pity to worm their way back in. Let him suffer, if he doesn't want to grow up in meaningful ways and build an equal dynamic, he wont. (Trust me, I learned this the hard way).